Saying goodbye to all my works that I used to do, making the new beginning in my life would be the most challenging part!!! I know this way that I choose will be the path forever. I never regretted this actually I can’t wait for it and I’m so excited to be a mom.

     Guys, pray for me and my baby’s health!!!!!

       Till we meet again………..

How to Win Friends and Influence People

( Guidelines from Dale Carnegie’s " How to win friends and influence people" )

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.

3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six ways to make people like you

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.

2. Smile.

3. Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

5. Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.

6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.

Win people to your way of thinking

1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.

2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say, "You’re wrong."

3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

4. Begin in a friendly way.

5. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.

6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.

7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.

9. Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.

10. Appeal to the nobler motives.

11. Dramatize your ideas.

12. Throw down a challenge.

Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

A leader’s job often includes changing your people’s attitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this:

1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation. 

2. Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly.

3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.

4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.

5. Let the other person save face.

6. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."

7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.

8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.

9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

"How To Be Happy"

1. Make up your mind to be happy. Learn to find pleasure in simple things. ~

2. Make the best of your circumstances. No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears. ~

3. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Don’t think that somehow you should be protected from misfortune that befalls other people. ~

4. You can’t please everybody. Don’t let criticism worry you. ~

5. Don’t let your neighbor set your standards. Be yourself. ~

6. Do the things you enjoy doing but stay out of debt. ~

7. Never borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than real ones. ~

8. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish jealousy, enmity, grudges. Avoid people who make you unhappy. ~

9. Have many interests. If you can’t travel, read about new places. ~

10. Don’t hold post-mortems. Don’t spend your time brooding over sorrows or mistakes. Don’t be one who never gets over things. ~

11. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself. ~

12. Keep busy at something. A busy person never has time to be unhappy. ~

- Robert Louis Stevenson

"It was a hell living in my house now!!" It’s too too too hot  I feel like something very hot is beside me I really wanted aircon but hey guys you know how it’s expensive isn’t it? I wish to transfer to a more convenient and cool place but dahhh…. where is it? I feel the summer is coming very soon and I really hate it!!! I wanted to go for  a swim but I know I can’t swim or even float kc poh my god I am getting big and so heavy kaya. I wish kahit float magawa ko hehehehe!!!!!  Guys can you donate some aircon for me? Grabe na ito!!! I can’t help but cry and ask GOD why me ? Am I a bad person?  huhuhuhu…..

Cye

  I cried a lot yesterday February 14, 2007 I can’t imagine that my husband will give me a very nice bouquet of flowers and a very sweet Valentine’s card. We had a relationship for 4 years as girlfriend and boyfriend but this was the first Valentine’s that he gave me flowers.I was just thinking that if you got married you can never experience sweetness from your husband but I was wrong!

  My husband showed me much love and protection. Now I can finally say I was so lucky to have him in my life. Having him beside me was the most wonderful time in my life!!!

Thank you ney for everything because everyday I am getting to know you and loving you so much. Thank you for entering in my life and giving me much love that I never asked or dream for the entire of my life.

             I love you so much!!!

Cye

Each day I’m getting excited and excited to see my baby. I can feel my baby every now and then.If he/she likes to talk she/he wanted to have a chat with me. I don’t care about the expenses, diet, medicine and all morning sicknesses that I had experienced.I just want to see him/her smiling at me and wanted to kiss me everytime. We are all excited we can’t wait to see our baby.Hug, kiss, carry and go around in all the beautiful places here…

We love you baby….

muah muah muah

Mama

I wrote a letter to him before we got married that was last December 14, 2006. Everything that I wrote for him comes from the bottom of my heart….

My husband,

   I didn’t know that we will end up in getting married. Having one dream and building our own family. Being with you for the rest of my life makes me a complete person. You changed my life and give me light in every second of the day. I wish I made some difference in your life too.

I love you so much ney and I want to be with you for the rest of my life!!!

                                                                     Cye

This is a letter that me and my husband wrote a few days ago for our upcoming baby…I hope when he or she grows old she/he can read it and post a comment…(hehehehe)

Baby,

We’re so excited and we can’t wait to see you. We know it wouldn’t be easy to raise you but we can promise to give all the love, support and guidance that you need. We’re praying to God Almighty to guard you everyday, make you healthy and grow with strong fate with him. God bless you baby. Mama and Papa love you so much!!!!

                                                    Mama and Papa

I am so surprised that my dearly husband send me early Valentines card.I was so touch and almost cried with the message that was written.. I can feel the sincerity and honesty in the letter.I maybe too sentimental and sensitive now a days but don’t you find it a good letter….

To my wife with love,

I want to thank you for everything you do. This is for you because I want you to know I think you’re the best wife any man could ask for.

   Thank you for being the most beautiful part of my life, for being my happiness, my home, my dearest friend, and the one I love endlessly.

   You’re more than just my wife…

   You’re everything to me.

    I love you so.

That no words can tell how much I love you.

                                                         Ney

Now tell me am I too sensitive or sentimental???

                                                                  Cye